Like an ancient old-growth forest -- where the subtle play of light, texture and shadows is the product of a process measured in centuries and inches -- most things of lasting value develop gradually, at their own pace. The ability to learn from experience -- one of humanity's greatest treasures -- implies constant yet gradual progress. The combination of stillness within and determination without are the essence of this condition. Good things sometimes sprout quickly; the truly delightful take much longer.
The principle of gradual development applies also to human relationships. For love, marriage and business relationships to endure, progress must be slow but steady: slow enough to allow for the bonds to knit properly; steady enough to move in the right direction.